The Power is Mine……..

I have come to a point that i really don’t understand what i like and what i don’t. Everything around me changes the way i want it to change. It just how i look about it. I learn to be positive and i realized that my remaining positive i actually never get sad. Now whats the truth, i don’t know. Whether whats happening around is correct or wrong , it is a good moment or a bad moment, is it time to act or is it time to realize. I cannot seems to understand the decision is good one or a bad one. Because whatever one decides, it has its own plus points and negative point. Right now , whatever i decide i see the plus point and remain happy. But is it not that i am faking it? I should not say faking it, but actually i don’t know the reality. For me its a choice and i always take the positive choice and i live with it.

But, to be positive, an effort is required. Its not natural to me. I don’t know its only me or for everyone . I guess nothing is natural, except for very few moments of your life. And for the rest small numerous moment of life, I can manipulate things for my happiness or for that matter sadness also at any moment of time. Yes, sadness is also a very good time pass. For me, i am standing on the threshold between two worlds, and i jump around, considerable amount of time spent in the better world and sometimes on the other side for a change. The point is the power is in my hand to switch.

Happiness is an overrated word

I again tell you the old story…A guy got his first job and used bus as his daily means of transport….but was not happy…after a year of savings he bought a motorcycle…then after few years he got married and had children. But the motorcycle was not enough to be happy so he bought a CAR taking loan from the Bank. To pay the loan amount they cut down on their daily expenses. Soon he realized that he cannot afford to travel in Car everyday for office and used it only on family outings. For daily transport switched back to Bus. He started working more but in the process he lost its happiness. The thing he was running after.

Happiness cannot be achieved by an object or an event. It is completely related to Attitude. The stress should be on Attitude not happiness. Your attitude towards anything. This is what matters

Whats the best Way…???

What is the best way to live a life..??There are numerous thoughts, theories regarding this.

• Live for the present. Enjoy the moment. Take life as it comes one day at a time. Forget the past as what as already occurred  cannot be changed. Don’t ponder on the future as it will ruin your present. Action cannot be taken in future nor in past as it is the moment which is in your hand. For everything there are ateast two views one comes from the heart and other one from the brain. And its told obey your heart. Be instinctive.
• Live for the future.Have a goal. Whatever you do , do it for a better future, do it to achieve your goal. Decision has to calculated, logical , basically from your brain. Be practical.

I have a thought about this question for a long period of time. Then i realized that there are some question for which you never get a distinctive answer. This is a question one should try to answer once in his life. In the search of the answer, you will become a more noble, intellectual, honest towards life but you will not get the answer. You are not supposed to. Life is too dynamic to have a fixed way to live it. And then i guess no one in the entire universe leads the best way.